Extending Kindness Helps Your Recovery

In life, you will certainly be faced with negative people and negative situations at various times.  There are annoying neighbors, rude store clerks, selfish bosses, insensitive lovers, controlling in-laws, and so on.  Unless you are a Individual Addiction Counselingrecluse, you will have to deal with the character defects and moodiness of people.

Whether you’re in recovery from alcoholism or whether you still struggle, you have to ask yourself just how will you respond in such situations? Will you make a rude comment? Will you allow your mood to be altered all day? Will you allow resentment and bitterness to take hold? Will you harbor negative thoughts? Will you resort to a relapse?

Extend kindness no matter what

Good news is that you don’t have to. You can make a decision right now to love all of those you come into contact with on a daily basis despite how they treat you.  You can remove all expectations of how others should treat you and love them unconditionally knowing that you are loved unconditionally by your Higher Power.

Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, good days and bad days, and a unique story.  Determine to respond to such with a loving glance, a loving thought, word, or behavior.  Bless those that curse you and indeed turn the other cheek.  When negativity and darkness surround you, allow your light and love to radiate outward to dispel that darkness.  When it seems like all is chaotic around you, release your love and peace into the situation and believe for the best.

You will discover true peace and joy

What will happen as you determine to let love rule your day is that you will discover an endless river of joy and bliss that flows into you and out through you into others.  You will find yourself happier and less likely to start drinking alcohol again. As you allow your Higher Power to love through you, you open doors for all sorts of abundance to come to you.

It was William Shakespeare that said, “Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind.”  What he is saying is that every single person on earth has a pure spirit that was created by a loving Higher Power.  It is the true essence of who they are and it is at that deep level that we are to love them.  We are to look past the layers of selfishness and character defects and love their innermost being- their spirit.

After all, the loving Higher Power loves each one of us despite all of our flaws, mistakes, selfishness, etc.  Receive Divine Love today. Embrace it and allow it to extend to all of those you come in contact with.  Greet every person that you see with a positive and loving greeting.  Bless people abundantly silently or out loud.  Let people know that they are loved no matter what.

As you do, you will be enveloped in such light and love.  You will be attracting good to you on all sorts of levels.  Happiness, bliss, and peace will be yours and you will be free from looking toward others to make you happy. Be happy because you are loved and you have the opportunity to show others kindness and love. Just watch how your recovery will blossom when you can adopt this as part of your lifestyle.